"Bandz a make her dance", "Pour it Up-Pour it Up", "A$$", "Low-low-low", "Rack City", "Right Round", etc. these are just some examples of popping songs that when we hear them we like to get it crunk on the dance floor and some of us like to follow the directions of the song and "bend it over girl let me see that a-- shake...". Being a stripper has completely been glamorized as this sexy, popular, money making, desired, celebrity life style. Ladies; from experience I can tell you it is a degrading, DIRTY, disrespectful, alcohol & drug induced, violating, hustle that will swallow you up and keep you trapped until you can't find a way out. You become an object and not a person, there is a price on your precious privates and it's as cheap as one dollar. Men and women pay to put their filthy hands on you, have you grind on their genitals and the more generous you are the more money you make.
Many of times I've found myself avoiding dangerous situations, being spoken down to by some sleeze holding cash in his hands acting as if I belong to him for that moment and I kept thinking "I am better than this". I know, I know "Shorty's working her grind, don't hate" and I don't hate, but I certainly cannot congratulate! I can only encourage that if this is your hustle make a plan to get out!
Find what you genuinely enjoy doing and pursue that goal. You are more than "a piece of a--"; you are a beautiful, intelligent, gifted woman and there are so many opportunities in this country available to you to not just "make money" but be successful. Close your eyes and envision yourself preparing a life and future for you and your children and have a healthy relationship with that special someone who will love and respect you. Look in the mirror and see yourself as more than just those beautiful curves. You are in control of your destiny, just seek your goal and reach for it. Don't stop pushing and don't quit. It may be hard work, but remember you're worth it...because God said so!
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